and counting. We were married in 1992 at the Museum of Art in Fort Lauderdale. The ceremony took place in the main gallery in front of an incredible Dorothy Gillespie. Here we are on our wedding day along with Dorothy:

We had an amazing wedding. It began the day before with a party in our honor hosted by none other than Dorothy and her late husband, Buddy. The wedding itself was beautiful, surrounded by glorious artwork and accompanied by the music of Jon Frangipane on piano. Following the ceremony, we treated everyone to Thai Garden in Wilton Manors. Patty, owner of Thai Garden, outdid herself, serving some 60+ of our closest friends and family members. The dinner was not the end of the evening, however. The finale was a party at our condo in Margate:

Okay, so the little store bought cheesecake with the improvised birthday candle was a little lame, particularly when compared to the lovely wedding cake ringed with pearls and topped with irises that a friend presented at our wedding dinner.
Yes, today is also our birthdays. This dual birthday/anniversary has worked well for us all these years. Neither of us has ever forgotten a birthday or an anniversary. Even our children have no problem remembering our special day. Our oldest presented us with this card this morning:

Smart aleck, that one is.
And Mother Nature presented us with yet another birthday snow:

That’s the view from the kitchen this morning. That’s about all we can see, as our road turned to mud this weekend, with ruts a foot deep that are now covered in about 6 inches of snow. Amazing. To think this all began in Fort Lauderdale – and now we look out our windows to a winter wonderland. Even more amazing is the noise inside our house – basketballs bouncing off walls, an electric guitar wailing away upstairs, dogs barking at the snow as it slides off the roof.
We moved to Vermont 15 years ago with no real plans, just a vague idea of semi retirement. I was going to weave rugs. Tom knew he wasn’t going to have much opportunity to continue in his field (he was an exhibitions designer – an incredible one at that) in Vermont, so he planned on working as a massage therapist and playing his guitar. Amazing. We never thought we would have a house full of boys, critters everywhere, and be spending our days making the products that we do. Who knew?
It’s been a long and often challenging road that we have traveled, but it feels as though we set out on it only yesterday. I pray it never ends. I told Tom this morning that I felt I have done enough lifetimes in enough situations – as far as relationships go, I have achieved the pinnacle – therefore I see no reason for it to end or alter once we leave this life. I would love nothing more than to go on through eternity with Tom by my side.
Happy Birthday, Happy Anniversary, Tom!